Wednesday, March 14, 2007

讲与写

讲话能表达一切,但我认为写更能一切的表达。因为写让我们有时间去思考,去分析。

每当我们写好一切,我们都会回看,重读然后思考:如这样写是否讨他欢喜,是否伤到他心灵。读那个也会有时间去思考,分析您所写的一切,所要表达的事物。

有些事情很难用嘴巴表达出来,讲出来也未必能得到好的结果。比如‘我爱你’,‘对不起’,这些简单的字,无论对着父母,孩子,兄弟,姐妹甚至恋人, 夫妻有时候都觉得难以开口,唯有用笔来表达。我时常有这样的经验。

照片摘自: merlinprincesse

2 comments:

耳朵姑娘 said...

A lot of talking creates a spiralling downward.
We become restless;
we start talking.
Then it becomes even more difficult to concentrate and the mind becomes yet more restless.

merlinprincesse said...

:))) I can't write what is written... But I can read my name. Thanks for mentionning it! :)